December 19, OK, you're off the hook, mine was in the 70's too, but I hadn't been to CA by then. Lonely is an everyday thing. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. Marriage is simply not an option to me there. He will have to wait outside if his children marry in the temple.
And yet I have such profound respect for his role in our community. He ended up cheating with one of the nurses and his wife left him. The fact that your guy came right out and said he didn't care what you thought and that we was going to spend his money and time the way he wanted indicates that he still thinks of himself as single.
Over the past year he has been telling me that he feels second to my schoolwork and my other responsibilities. See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember. What advice do you have for a newbie. You stop talking at all. He want to wait at least one year before he makes any decision he want to take it slow. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over.
There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them. Honestly i love my baby future doctor honestly i would never leave her, but im scared of not knowing how to deal with all situations and emotions by myself, and this have already began, that means evrytime is going to be worse and ill got to be more strong. And I resent being viewed as just the wife of a doctor rather than my own person with her own accomplishments and aspirations.